I was a social recluse up until my mid-20s. Geek boy. More time spent in fantasy games than Fortitude Valley, and more days spent experimenting with music & visual art than pining for a cutey to hold at night.
Always the one with the steady job, I decided to do something drastic and throw it all away for an adventure. I packed a bag, bought a one-way ticket, and with no planning managed to survive 2 years living & working abroad.
The experience turned this introvert into an extrovert. I enrolled into a degree upon my return, partied, dated some girls, and transformed into more of social butterfly. My gaming habits took a back seat to my more artistic pursuits. Somehow I ended up painting skateboards for cash.
I am a very professionally & socially confident person. If you're an anxious girl you may find that intimidating. But I've been there and can empathize. Have a casual coffee date with me and maybe we'll find a spark.